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Being 17 (2016), directed by AndrΓ© TΓ©chinΓ©, is a French coming-of-age drama that explores themes of identity, love, and self-discovery. The film follows Damien, a bright but reserved teenager living with his mother, Marianne, a military doctor, in a small town in the French Pyrenees. When Marianne is called away for work, Damien finds himself drawn into a tense and violent rivalry with another student, Thomas, a mixed-race boy from a struggling farming family. Their constant conflicts lead to fights at school, and their mutual resentment grows deeper.
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As their animosity escalates, Marianne intervenes and invites Thomas to live with them, hoping to ease the tension and support Thomas's education. Forced to coexist under the same roof, the boys struggle with their emotions, and their aggression towards each other begins to transform. Damien, who has been questioning his feelings, starts realizing that his hostility towards Thomas may be masking something deeperβan attraction he has yet to acknowledge.
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Over time, their dynamic shifts, and they develop an intense, complicated relationship. Thomas, who initially resents Damienβs privileged life, begins to open up, revealing his insecurities and struggles. Damien, on the other hand, grapples with his growing romantic feelings for Thomas, leading to a mix of confusion, desire, and vulnerability. Their emotional journey is further complicated by the pressure of their academic future and the challenges of their personal backgrounds.
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As the boys navigate their emotions, they slowly begin to accept their attraction to each other. Their fights turn into moments of tenderness, and what was once hostility transforms into a passionate romance. However, their love story is not without struggles, as both must confront their own fears, insecurities, and societal expectations. Marianne, though supportive, understands that their journey is far from easy and encourages them to embrace who they are.
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By the end of the film, Damien and Thomas come to terms with their feelings and embrace their relationship. Their journey from rivalry to love highlights the complexities of teenage emotions, the struggle of self-acceptance, and the power of human connection. Being 17 is a poignant and beautifully crafted story about growing up, discovering love, and finding the courage to be true to oneself.
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